My boyfriend received a text message from his ex girlfriend?

by admin on November 26, 2012

He said he hasn’t spoken to her in over a year. I know I would not contact an ex a year later. What do you ladies think?

{ 9 comments… read them below or add one }

undecided November 26, 2012 at 8:35 am

if he didn’t initiate the contact. and he doesn’t seem to have feelings for her i wouldn’t worry about it too much. she may just be having a bad day and want to talk to someone who used to make her happy. but she probably doesn’t want to revive an old relationship. but you should def. communicate with your man that it bugs you a little.

betty m November 26, 2012 at 8:35 am

he could be lieing you never know i am still talking to my exs over the phone and he sends me text so i be asking him what is up because he maybe telling you the truth and again he maynot be. ps just so you know i am not with anyone yet not sure if my exs is or not but i am not that is why i talk to him.

matt t November 26, 2012 at 8:35 am

Might be an ex that never let go and he never had the heart to stop all communication with her. That is how my girlfriend is. Her ex-husband left her 2 years ago, is with another girl now he has had a baby with, and yet the guy still calls her and texts her. She hates him for not leaving her alone, but she is too nice to say "GO AWAY" or to get a restraining order.

I will tell you from my own personal experience this is a horrible thing to put a boyfriend/ girlfriend through, it is not very considerate of the others feelings.

You have the right to be furious with him. You should have all of him, not part of him. He shouldn’t have any ex-lovers texting/calling him out of the blue, you should be his center of his life, his full attenton.

Alissa November 26, 2012 at 8:35 am

I get text messages out of the blue as well. Its just a way to check in on each other and make sure everyone is ok. Stop worrying about it

Dada‚ô• November 26, 2012 at 8:35 am

If it’s just ONE text, then it’s no big deal. But When she starts calling, Then ask him about it. No person should ever talk to an EX, except for if they have kids.

Justforfun November 26, 2012 at 8:35 am

Sounds fishy. But he could be telling you the truth. Did you see what the message said? Some people just can’t let go but he could be trying to be slick! My man talked to his ex for a while when we first got together. I had no clue he had been talking to her for almost a year!!! I would confront him and let him know this bothers you if he is a jerk about it then I would say forget him. That is sooo disrespectful and he wouldn’t want it done to him so screw him!!

Jack B November 26, 2012 at 8:35 am

Ask him how he honestly feels about it! I’m sure you could draw some conclusions just based off of that.

Sugarbaby November 26, 2012 at 8:35 am

Just laugh it off and be cool about it. But keep one eye open..

J November 26, 2012 at 8:35 am

I’d watch him closely.

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